Have you ever felt like the universe doesn’t respond when you ask for help? Martha says that people often don’t recognize the help they’ve been seeking, when in fact, we could choose to see even the most ordinary things as the arrival of miraculous helpers. In this episode of The Gathering Room: How to Look for Help, she shares a story about someone who fails to notice how he’s been helped: A man walks into a bar in northern Canada and says to the bartender, “I used to be a believer, I used to t